I wrote this post 2 days ago but didn't publish it for some reason.. And then the Mumbai attacks took place and it felt mis-timed to talk about India tourism. I am hoping that it doesn't sound out-of-place in the whole grand scheme of things. ____________________________________________________________________

Ever been asked a question, to which you have soo much to say that you can't answer it? Let me ask you the same question that my professor asked me, not verbatim, but pretty much the gist.
"I am going to India for a conference based in Chennai. I will have 4 days for sightseeing.. what all should I see?"
Trying to see India in 4 days is like trying to swallow an elephant in one go. It's impossible. But I have often found myself floundering to answer various combinations of the very same basic question. Me, who can give you unsolicited opinions and direct suggestions about what to do and what not in most of the other places I have visited am left clueless when it comes to India, maybe because I haven't seen a whole lot yet, maybe because I haven't played tourist while having planned the trip (our parents planned the trips when we were young).
Of course, what came to mind almost instantaneously were
1.
Mahabalipuram (simply coz if the conference was in Chennai, then it's a must-see),
2.
Pondicherry (same reason + it's all French-French)
3. The backwaters and a houseboat experience in
Kerela (God's own country)
4.
Taj Mahal
5.
Fatehpur Sikri
6. Palaces of
Jaipur, forts of Jodhpur, the city of Jaiselmer7.
Bangalore - Mysore8.
The Western Ghats (and Bombay n Goa perhaps)9.
The Ganges - Himalayas - Haridwar-Hrishikesh10. The
temples of the south (Tirupati, Kanchi Kamakshi, Madurai Meenakshi) the Golden Temple in Amritsar
11. The caves of
Ajanta-Ellora12.
Sanchi
And suddenly it seems like I could go on and on about places and spots to visit and importantly regional cuisines and food to try. But where to start? And where to end? And that too in a 3-4 day trip? If any of you have given recommendations to a friend to do something similar or have done it yourself, do give me some tips here. Your perspective of
must-see in India will be most appreciated. Thanks!