tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post6233624062563524440..comments2024-03-22T08:21:15.899+01:00Comments on MindBlogging: Vile vibesJayahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-21084785888301392922008-11-21T08:40:00.000+01:002008-11-21T08:40:00.000+01:00totally hear ya! It makes me very uncomfortable wh...totally hear ya! It makes me very uncomfortable when someone evidently dislikes me and I'm forced to hang out with them. If I happen to really like that person, I'd just ask them about it but when I myself don't care for that person too much - I just boil silently every time I'm subject to their coldness/weirdness around me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-67261417902699351812008-11-19T14:19:00.000+01:002008-11-19T14:19:00.000+01:00Siva -> Kadhai in person :DSachin -> I guess...Siva -> Kadhai in person :D<BR/><BR/>Sachin -> I guess popularity is on of the unmentioned reasons too. But it doesn't make one happy/proud/egoistic as you say. Rather it's something that cannot be helped, thus the amusement. Because in such a case, the problem is on the other side and not your own. I do agree first impressions are lasting, though never concrete. In fact my first Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-40858345716974500932008-11-19T11:17:00.000+01:002008-11-19T11:17:00.000+01:00I think dislike is a side-effect of popularity. So...I think dislike is a side-effect of popularity. So, when u know this is the reason, u shud actually be happy, proud, egositic that u are popular. Maybe that is why it amuses u.<BR/><BR/>And if u can't avoid interacting with such ppl, u shud keep ur good work, and sometime they will realise that u r actually a very good person. Coz first impressions can be wrong and some ppl conclude just based onSachinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04469486597500300467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-50386897785508970612008-11-19T10:59:00.000+01:002008-11-19T10:59:00.000+01:00hey what is that silly reason? I am just curious.....hey what is that silly reason? I am just curious..<BR/><BR/>SivaOnes and zeroes and myselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12529704354245597732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-67922845032026551462008-11-19T08:20:00.000+01:002008-11-19T08:20:00.000+01:00Groovygal -> Yeah I guess you are right. Thanks...Groovygal -> Yeah I guess you are right. Thanks for visiting and keep coming back! :)Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-17396392279306953162008-11-18T22:10:00.000+01:002008-11-18T22:10:00.000+01:00Don't stress over people who don't like you n all....Don't stress over people who don't like you n all. Everyone has people like that in their lives. I bet you dont like some ppl either. So itts all a vicious circle. So everyone shd deal with it n chill. For yr part u r dealing pretty well with it if u do do what u wrote. Also, I love the look of yr blog. it'vs very original. Good work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-58080749049854476072008-11-18T19:00:00.000+01:002008-11-18T19:00:00.000+01:00Navneet - well then that sort of blends with my pr...Navneet - well then that sort of blends with my pretence theory. So we are on the same page. :)Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-38084270754271253132008-11-18T18:54:00.000+01:002008-11-18T18:54:00.000+01:00By "screw you!", I meant a non-verbal, silent "scr...By "screw you!", I meant a non-verbal, silent "screw you!". I dont make a conscious effort to start a conversation with this person in public, or with friends. But I also dont utter expletives when this person starts a conversation... I instead answer just what exactly is needed, without being rude. No more, no less.what humours mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10617395259377483627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-21509329029402025082008-11-18T18:42:00.000+01:002008-11-18T18:42:00.000+01:00Navneet - sometimes it's not easy. What if you hav...Navneet - sometimes it's not easy. What if you have to interact with this person(s) often? It makes it uncomfortable for all in that case. Unless you are thinking - screw them too!Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-21135144196844971832008-11-18T18:39:00.000+01:002008-11-18T18:39:00.000+01:00I find it best to use the easy approach... it's ca...I find it best to use the easy approach... it's called "screw you!". <BR/><BR/>Predictably, this often is followed by the adoption of the same approach by the protagonist. But it anyways was that way... so yeah... "screw you!" again. :Dwhat humours mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10617395259377483627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-56564858518981227242008-11-18T18:35:00.000+01:002008-11-18T18:35:00.000+01:00Bala/Ram -> True. Nobody can claim universal po...Bala/Ram -> True. Nobody can claim universal popularity... But I find it funny when some get irked when they find out that some others don't like them.. Haha. That's all. I on the other hand find it amusing.Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-29240256035910931402008-11-18T18:34:00.001+01:002008-11-18T18:34:00.001+01:00Navneet - Thanks :D. VR is Vidhya.. hehehe. And ye...Navneet - Thanks :D. VR is Vidhya.. hehehe. And yeah, bitching is one thing. You inadvertantly bitch about people you like too... once in a way anyways. But actual dislike is harder to come by and sometimes even harder to detect. That was the object of the post... hehe. Thanks Navneet n keep visiting!Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-72850277831723566082008-11-18T18:34:00.000+01:002008-11-18T18:34:00.000+01:00well, people have choices, even among those who th...well, people have choices, even among those who they like. So, yeah, there's nothing to get bummed about by someone not liking you. The reasons for dislike vary as much as people do. But after all, is there anyone who is still living and liked by ALL?Ramhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06128107240531397169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-73936389793677580552008-11-18T18:27:00.000+01:002008-11-18T18:27:00.000+01:00And you got me scratching on the vile, evil, live ...And you got me scratching on the vile, evil, live anagram thing. Very extremely positively interesting!what humours mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10617395259377483627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-10096565528621525652008-11-18T18:25:00.000+01:002008-11-18T18:25:00.000+01:00I wonder who this 'colleague' is. Anyways all your...I wonder who this 'colleague' is. Anyways all your roommates in Cincinnati were always bitching about other females.. so its not new. :P BTW...is VR = Vidhya Rammohan? <BR/><BR/>- Navneetwhat humours mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10617395259377483627noreply@blogger.com