tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post5104132263096855024..comments2024-03-22T08:21:15.899+01:00Comments on MindBlogging: The art of letting goJayahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-86261015533695742402009-03-23T07:59:00.001+01:002009-03-23T07:59:00.001+01:00Archu -> Get some rest, girl!Archu -> Get some rest, girl!Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-51351700278434222902009-03-23T07:59:00.000+01:002009-03-23T07:59:00.000+01:00Archu -> Thanks babe... Totally agree with you....Archu -> Thanks babe... Totally agree with you. The 'payee' thing was on the top of my head to write n you did it first... but I nodded along all over your post coz its the exact same thing!! Thanks n keep visiting! :)Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-89652802512586343212009-03-23T06:42:00.000+01:002009-03-23T06:42:00.000+01:00Correction..not as much the things you write..but ...Correction..not as much the things you write..but I meant..when you write the things that I think too..Just landed 30 mins ago..and extremely groggy..:D later..!Archanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12347231553382212709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-45911393742986088132009-03-23T06:41:00.000+01:002009-03-23T06:41:00.000+01:00J - sometimes the things that you write...its scar...J - sometimes the things that you write...its scary! I see so much of me in you and/or vice-versa..its not even funny..esp when something similar happens at around the same time and I think...I need to post this..and then I never get around to because of things and then I read the exact same thoughts 3 days later! Couldn;t agree with you more..btw..have you read "The Secret"? It goes on and on Archanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12347231553382212709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-3657269291557825092009-03-21T10:32:00.000+01:002009-03-21T10:32:00.000+01:00Sachin -> Yes... thank you. Well I guess you ne...Sachin -> Yes... thank you. Well I guess you need to meet all sorts of people to value the really good ones. And everything in life is a lesson. :)Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-65218497060372473452009-03-21T10:30:00.000+01:002009-03-21T10:30:00.000+01:00It's good to know that you decided to let go, sinc...It's good to know that you decided to let go, since the person is not worth you. You have better people to look at in your life.<BR/>Consider that it was a sort of bad time in your life that you came in touch with them and be happy that now you are out of it. Its a bit similar to what you have already managed to do with some other people.Sachinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04469486597500300467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-71171056836791182142009-03-18T06:47:00.000+01:002009-03-18T06:47:00.000+01:00Bala, Kathleen and Dilip -> Thank you so much. ...Bala, Kathleen and Dilip -> Thank you so much. Keep coming back... Dilip, sometimes you have to consciously tell the subconscious to let go :D<BR/><BR/>Anon -> Gee, thanks, for the "insult" I mean... And well considering that it is a blog about what goes on in my life, no wonder it's "self-absorbed". Anyhow, glad I managed to impress you on this count at least and Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-27569045100401241842009-03-18T05:41:00.000+01:002009-03-18T05:41:00.000+01:00hmm, the title of the post pulled me to read the p...hmm, the title of the post pulled me to read the post. Yes, its something all of us have to contend with at some point or the other. But sometimes its not a conscious decision, its sub-conscious, we let go without our knowledge...Diliphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07154840744130763542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-85420375313780688912009-03-18T02:28:00.000+01:002009-03-18T02:28:00.000+01:00hey,I've sometimes felt that a few of your posts a...hey,<BR/>I've sometimes felt that a few of your posts are too self absorbed for my liking, and all that... and I dont even know you!<BR/><BR/>This one, however, with this one, you've earned my admiration. I loved it. And especially as someone who finds this very issue a chronic obsessive problem almost every other day of my life, it struck a chord like no other.<BR/><BR/>Good work. and keep Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-62714095098932097692009-03-18T01:51:00.000+01:002009-03-18T01:51:00.000+01:00If only it was that easy. I can let go of failed a...If only it was that easy. I can let go of failed art peices and know when to declare it pointless to try and fix... I can let go of physical object... but emotion with people? Another story.<BR/><BR/>Love your blog layout design... Impressive :)Kathleen McGiveronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03890686223456538052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-63957121136315791052009-03-18T00:16:00.000+01:002009-03-18T00:16:00.000+01:00A thought provoking piece indeed. It is true that ...A thought provoking piece indeed. It is true that those things that you want to pretend to be cool about, are not real. They or their actions, past or present, keep haunting you and even if you blasted the heart outta the people we're talking about, it still never leaves you and some things just don't get all right. But hopefully, you've only been trying to be good legitimately.<BR/><BR/>Yes, Ramhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06128107240531397169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-50819243065905621782009-03-17T21:36:00.000+01:002009-03-17T21:36:00.000+01:00Vidhya -> That's true too.. but it's li...Vidhya -> That's true too.. but it's like what I said... you WANT your reaction to be different from the one you HAVE. And it takes a while to cross over to really not getting bothered.Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-66659512676514601742009-03-17T19:33:00.000+01:002009-03-17T19:33:00.000+01:00Sometimes I am absolutely amazed that I am bugged ...Sometimes I am absolutely amazed that I am bugged by a certain person. Because I am like I didn't expect anything more from this person then why the irritation. But I have realized this is because even though I think I have accepted the person for who they are, its not true. Deep down I still expect more of them. So sitting down, going over every incident and then truly accepting the person for Vidhyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12114483972439859510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-38614622624859055212009-03-17T18:15:00.000+01:002009-03-17T18:15:00.000+01:00Anon -> Thank you so much. You made my day :)Sa...Anon -> Thank you so much. You made my day :)<BR/><BR/>Sang -> Well even if it is someone you care about, in case they don't care about you, why should you? It's a paradox of sorts but you got to do what you got to do.Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-14034484222378587552009-03-17T18:09:00.000+01:002009-03-17T18:09:00.000+01:00I agree with Nitya to an extent..But if the person...I agree with Nitya to an extent..But if the person involved is someone you care for, then you would want to resolve any misunderstanding...So "I don't care" attitude may not work in such cases<BR/> As Jaya pointed out, if the person is someone you don't have to deal with often, then why not ignore?Sanghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01184428481313824933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-84359745697562052292009-03-17T16:25:00.000+01:002009-03-17T16:25:00.000+01:00I've been reading your posts a long time. Itz amaz...I've been reading your posts a long time. Itz amazing that the quality of your posts hasn't gone down at all. Infact every now and then you come up with gems like this one. Excellent work.. congratulations on the good stuff :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-14004085919727008302009-03-17T16:19:00.000+01:002009-03-17T16:19:00.000+01:00Nitya -> Trua, also. Well in my case it's e...Nitya -> Trua, also. Well in my case it's easier coz I don't have to deal with it everyday... but only every now n then. So it's probably easier than if it were a colleague or something, you know? But totally agree that if communication fails, nip it off!Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681823100044610529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8597189.post-18745409205436267242009-03-17T16:16:00.000+01:002009-03-17T16:16:00.000+01:00Yes, getting to actually letting go from pretendin...Yes, getting to actually letting go from pretending to do so is indeed a challenge. And you're right as always - we are ALL bothered by something or someone without wanting to care. I've discovered that the best solution is to stay away from the person/issue and get busy with life till it all blows over. Of course, that approach is the last resort - after an attempt to resolve it by communicationAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com